A lot of dating tips for men are geared toward women who only look a certain way. But there many reasons why a woman can be beautiful. Here are three types of beauty, and what motivates men to pursue them:
1.) “Regulation” sexy
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You don’t have to be unique. You just have to be hot. Or, to be more specific, you need to follow society’s definition of what is hot.
Women are told to be regulation hot, men are told to get with women who are regulation hot.
Think of a women who is thin, tan, with facial features so proportional they could be made into a mathematical formula. Cheerleaders and high school popular girls aspire to look regulation hot.
Most dating tips for men are geared toward getting these sorts of women.
These women look great. These women are great. But pursuing them can be a slippery slope.
Dating tip for men: Ask yourself this: to you really, deep down inside want to date a woman who looks like this? Maybe you do, and that’s awesome.
But a lot of men only feel they need to be with these women. Society has been telling them their entire lives that this is what beauty is. And yes, these women are beautiful. But there are other types of beauty out there.
2.) Uniquely sexy
Some women are beautiful in their own ways.
Many women are beautiful not by society’s standards, but because they are unique. They have that je ne sais quoi about them.
A man who likes a woman’s looks for her uniqueness is often attracted to her vulnerabilities. He sees something about her that matches himself.
She doesn’t have to be the hottest woman in the party. She just has to complement who he is in some way.
Being regulation hot means going to the gym twice a week and wearing the right type of make up. It’s about trying to meet society’s regulations.
But looking unique is a completely different mindset. Unique beauties approach beauty as an art form. Hipsters, emos, goths and other subculture girls aspire to this sort of beauty.
3.) “I want to fuck her” sexy
Oh yeah...
This third category is my favorite. And it’s probably the least explored in dating tips for men.
These women are hot because you want to stick your big cock inside of them.
The fascinating thing is that women don’t have to look regulation hot or unique to turn you on.
A lot of you probably don’t want to admit this, but many of you would probably get a real hard on fucking a woman that looked like this:
Venus of Willendorf
No I wouldn’t, you’re thinking. Yes, you would. If none of your friends found out, and you knew that you only had to fuck her once, you would go to town with her. Apparently some caveman also thought she was sexy.
A lot of regulation hotties and unique beauties turn me on. But a lot, as nice as they look, don’t turn me on. And some there are a lot of cavewomen out there that do.
What is it about a woman that turns me on? Beats me. Probably her large breasts or big butt. But not always.
Here’s a dating tip for men and a great rule of thumb: let the dick pick.
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Here’s where I got the images:
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Big-tits/201925119835590?sk=photos
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Hipster/180298778660050
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf
Kim Kardashian’s a royalty free image I bought from http://www.dreamstime.com .
